Help me get Bawdy!

January 15, 2012 |

UPDATE!!   It is looking really good for my chances to go back to SF for the Bawdy Fifth Anniversary! Which is AWESOME!   But I need your help! While I wish I could peel off the ducats and be a carefree jetsetter, I’m actually not all that financially fabulous! If you’d like to see me…

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e[Lust] #32

January 15, 2012

Photo courtesy of Lady Grinning Soul Welcome to e[lust], the sex blog round-up- The best posts from the hottest and smartest sex bloggers all in one place! This edition highlights topics such as libido, fake orgasms, teenage lust, voyeurism, BDSM consent and so much more. Want to be included in e[lust] #33? Start with the…

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Ẹrú.

January 8, 2012 |

I think about tattoos for at least a year before getting them. I’ve wanted an affirmation of my identity as a slave for some time now. But its me, so I gotta be different. I’ve seen people with BDSM logos, with their Slave Registry numbers, with their owner’s name, with various Japanese and Chinese characters…

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And now, a word from “The Man.”

December 30, 2011

I’m deeply honored and pleased (and yeah, a little turned on) to re-post, with permission, a really remarkable essay on race play.   Shock #1, it isn’t by me.   Less shocking, it is about me, kinda.   Shockingest of all? It is an essay written from  the top’s experience in doing race play.  My…

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And Now a Word From “The Man.”

December 30, 2011 |

I’m deeply honored and pleased (and yeah, a little turned on) to re-post, with permission, a really remarkable essay on race play.   Shock #1, it isn’t by me.   Less shocking, it is about me, kinda.   Shockingest of all? It is an essay written from  the top’s experience in doing race play.  My…

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We are Family.

December 29, 2011 |

I’ve been “out” as someone a bit bent pretty much since I realized it was a reality for me. My friends all had similar reactions: eye-rolling and “Yeah…and?”   The only raised eyebrows I ever got were in reaction to my follow-up revelation that I was submissive. Everyone assumed I would be the one throwing…

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Unnatural submission.

December 28, 2011 |

When I first became involved in the kink community, I ran into plenty of people who held themselves to a very high standard. Of course, being an overachiever, I did as well. And then I started running into people who branded themselves as “naturals.”   These rarefied few were willing to share about how dominance…

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“The Wiz” and me.

December 25, 2011 |

A little off topic but I was curled up while petsetting today and caught part of “The Wiz” as it was being shown on some cable station or other.  I smiled, because I have rather particular memories around the movie…and I was wistful for a moment, because most of the stars of that movie are…

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BOOM goes the dynamite! NEW Erotic Awakenings AND New SexIs!

December 23, 2011

  It is a busy end to a busy year!   My first podcast for Erotic Awakening has hit the ground running!   Sit back, relax, take your socks off, get naked, grab a snack and some lotion and ….er….or just listen to my first installment of The Negress Natters on EA!   Check out…

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