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HNT ~ now you see me…
Playing dress-up is something I’ve enjoyed since I was a kid. And, as an actor, I’ve been able to indulge that frolicsome aspect of myself in many ways. I especially enjoy masks. When studying theater, I learned a great deal about the power of a mask, the history and mysticism of how free one can…
Read MoreFundies in the dungeon.
I have observed, over the years, a passive-aggressive tendency among perverts to denigrate one another’s choices within the Leather Lifestyle. For me the MOST insidious behaviour is the posturing of some people who self-identify as slaves. They are the ones most often referring to themselves with the dubious title “True†slaves, and farting in the…
Read MoreLet me Entertain You…
I have lots of stories to tell. So many that sometimes it is tough to figure out where to start. Do me a favor…? Help me remember. Toss a penny in my mental wishing well. In the same way that last week’s Sunday Morning Sexytime Story was pulled from the depth of my consciousness by…
Read MoreMake me want it.
“I am never impressed by sheer brutality in BDSM. I AM impressed when someone can evoke a DESIRE for sheer brutality in BDSM.” ~Mollena This occurred to me as I was reading page upon page of profiles on a couple of kink oriented sites where dominants were talking about how hardcore they were. Strict dominant…
Read MoreHaiku Nekkid Thursday.
Lying the wrong way in bed while the morning sun Limns drifting dust motes. Â Â Oddly transgressive reversed orientation complicates waking. Â Â
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From the “Best Sex Writing 2010” Blog, written by Rachel Kramer Bussel Best Sex Writing 2010 to be Published in December 2009 I’m VERY excited about Best Sex Writing 2010 and working with guest judge Esther Perel. We just finalized the Table of Contents and WOW is this book going to be amazing! Foreword by: Esther…
Read MoreLeave No Trace.
HNT: Windows & Mirrors.
That whole “The eyes are the window of the soul” thing is often true. I know I tend to thoughtless transparence in terms of eye contact. However, a lifetime of being the pleaser, the performer, of being trained to display emotions at will makes me feel a bit outside of this trope. Sure, it is…
Read MoreMonday night MADNESS.
As I sort frantically through a metric fuckton of email on FetLife, follow up on some proposals for BDSM classes, update this here blog with new class listings, I was craving a snack. I know. The superglam life of the Executive Pervert is a dizzying dance of desire… Anyway, so yeah. Popcorn was the clarion…
Read MoreHalf Nekkid Thursday: Fat Latex.
I’ve never worn this skirt. Sure, it is innocuous. Not even that clingy for a latex garment. But as a fat girl I don’t see latex modeled much for women my size. SO, I can never imagine myself in it, clingy and revealing or no. But I’m fucking tired of being self-conscious so I dragged…
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