Mo’s Internet Dating Tips: Watch your feet.

Hey kids! I know not everyone here is on an internet dating site. But most of you have tried one if you’ve been single in the past decade of so. And on the more adult sites, there are often issues that one faces. I addressed the issue of crappy handles and titles in the last…

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Mo’s Online Dating Tips For Pervs, Volume I : Handling your Handle

I will say that I have some expertise in the online dating thing. As an employee now for a site in which I’ve been an active member for almost 12 years and continuously since July 27th, 1998, and furthermore as an avid info-vacuum, I have gleaned much and winced repeatedly. I’m gonna throw down some…

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Choking on “Shoulds.”

One of the Happier Discoveries I made about being a pervert is that lots of the idiosyncrasies, pathologies, fetishes and freakish desires that many people frown upon in the General Public are not only just fine by pervs, but are actively encouraged. You Like to boss people around? Great! Find yourself a pliant submissive and knock…

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Please. Don’t do me any favors.

I have been exchanging emails with a dominant I had approached with the intent of getting to know him a little better. I got several brushbacks. He found me “intimidating” somehow…but never elaborated on what that meant. He doesn’t play casually, because his play partners tend to “fall for him” so rather than risk that,…

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“So why are you still single?”

(The name and the grammar have been (partially) changed / corrected to (kinda) protect the innocent) Mollena: Hi there…I suppose it has been an entire day since you sent that IM to me….and my gods were you up early in a Sunday! gimmiesomebooty: lol yea gimmiesomebooty: so how are you chocolate perfection? Mollena: You are…

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Shallow Mo…

I don’t usually advertise myself as a switch. Why? Because I’m not, centrally, switch-focused. I have found a depth of fulfillment within my submissive nature that is pretty fucking startlingly WINtastic. But every once in a while someone gets through the cracks and I think “Well, maybe, maybe I could switch…” And I wish it…

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FemDoms: my sympathies.

In my experience, Lifestyle female Dominants are among the rarer critters in the plains and valleys of the BDSM / Leather Lifestyle Landscape. These women are often beset by hordes of male submissives. It sounds like an awesome proposition no? To have packs of men swooning at your feet. Who wouldn’t want to be the…

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WTF Wednesday: what’s that about Black women, dude?

I absolutely cannot kill my internal eternal optimist. Many have, inadvertently, tried to quell Little Mo’s bright-eyed bushy-tailed wellspring of hopeless romanticism. “You never know!” she’ll pipe up in hopeful, dulcet tones “Stranger things have happened! Sometimes people find wonderful folks online! Give it a try Mo!” SO, I open my in-box on yet another…

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WTF Wednesday: Did you READ my profile?

I know it is tough. When you are surfing the interwebs to look for love, perhaps you lack the time to read every line of every profile of every woman into whom you want to stick your penis. But please. My gods. Some of the responses I get to my profile. This gem today in…

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