Posts Tagged ‘race play’
The Negress Natters: On BDSM & Race Play.
Look, Ma! New Tech! Welcome to what will probably be a new regular feature on The Perverted Negress! I can talk and you can listen and I don’t have to fucking type. What’s not to LOVE?! Check out the post on race play inspired by Jaki, who sent me a message on FetLife and then…Read More
From the “Best Sex Writing 2010” Blog, written by Rachel Kramer Bussel Best Sex Writing 2010 to be Published in DecemberÂ 2009 Iâ€™m VERY excited about Best Sex Writing 2010 and working with guest judge Esther Perel. We just finalized the Table of Contents and WOW is this book going to be amazing! Foreword by: Esther…Read More
Floating World, Flukey Weather.
On the way to Floating World I ran intoÂ a couple of moments of Zen. The first was cool: I ran into the charming and dope ass Q in the terminal. Q was on the way to the Butch Voices Conference, even as I was headed backÂ east for Floating World. We chatted a bit in the…Read More
Catch me at Floating World!
I’m off late-night tonight on the red-eye to New Jersey. Gods help me…it pains my HarlemÂ slash Upper East Side NY grrl heart to even type that… But it is for a good cause, since it’s gonna be just me and 1,199 other perverts for a weekend of depravity. ÂRead More
Sunday Morning Sexytime Story: Special Edition!
This is a video of my inaugural performance at theÂ Bawdy Storytelling in San Francisco. Curated by Dixie DeLaTour, the “Bawdy Storytelling“Â is an awesome chance for people to share their lascivious lives and adult adventures! This is my first time sharing about some personal and controversial stuff in this context. Since it wasn’t a class,…Read More
HNT: Dressed and still Nekkid.
I performed tonight at an AMAZING event called “Bawdy Storytelling” and you can see the information about it in my post from a couple of days ago. Dixie DeLaTour hosts and curates it and I know how much work that can be. And I major fucking HUGE round of applause because she is flawless. She…Read More
“Race Play: It NOT a Game:” A dissenting viewpoint.
Most of the people who post opinions contrary to mine on race play do not take the time to articulate much. As I mention, I take into account the opinions and feeling of dissenters wheneverÂ I speak or present on the topic. IÂ am posting here, unedited, and with the express written permission of the original…Read More
For today…I win. Right now…I rule.
I recently received a comment from a reader on my blog here that was if critical import to me in a time where i face cutting criticism and sometimes feel like I’m swimming upstream on a futile mission about which no one really cares.Â I’ll quote it here: Wow. I am blown away. I read…Read More
Just holding on.
I usually do become nervous before classes. But tonight it is compounded by the hateful email, the unpleasant reactions on another site about the race play interviews, my own delicately-balanced self-esteem, and feeling more than a little lonely. It isn’t ever easy to present, and with the gnawing realization that *gasp* someone out there wishes…Read More
Who’s Lynching Who?
It is not the first time that someone has been whipped into enough of a frenzy to excoriate me publicly. Years ago, when I was just talking about race play amongÂ Â a small group of people, and had only one class under my belt, I took this type of fuckery much more heavily. Nowadays, I am…Read More