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TONIGHT! I’ll be on the Radio!
Yep! Tune in tonight between 9:00 PM and 10:00 PM PST for my appearance on  Sexploration with Monika! We’ll be talking about cool fun stuff, like kink, being a Titleholder, performing, perversion, boobs, whatever…so you certainly should tune in! You can click through to the link above, or use an actual radio (gasp!) and tune…
Read MoreHNT: The World’s Awesomest Sweater.
I love this sweater. It is a colour I love, it is warm, and, most importantly, it has the sexiest hood and neckline I have ever seen. It is all draped and forms this sexy cowl and stuff. It is rare for me to feel sexy in general, so when I can have a SWEATER…
Read MoreA “Right” to public sex?
I love the Folsom Street Fair. I love that there is a day in the year that hundreds of thousands of freaks and gawkers run around being freaky. I love that we are given this leeway, and I love that our local government supports the Leather Community the way that it does. I am not…
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FetLife Giveaway!
Hey Fetlifers or wannabe FetLifers! Get your asses over there and enter the FetLife Holiday Giveaway! There is a shitload of shit from which you can choose. But you’d better not choose the shit I want because I’ll track you down and gank it. SO, stay away from that Fucking Machine, Bondage Corset and Heart…
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Oh yeah. Jersey!
I was moping a bit because I didn’t have a date or nuttin. for the New Year thing. But now I do. I few hundred dates, I guess. Will you be one of them? Shout out if you’re going! Click the banner to register if you wanna be!
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HNT ~ I want to join the Cirque-us.
I’d only seen Cirque Du Soleil on video. This has little bearing on the live experience. As a performer, I know this well. Theater is already in 4 dimensions, and so it cramps and flattens on film. SO, I was thrilled to be able to get discount tix to see the new offering from Cirque,…
Read MoreWhy Submission ≠Gift.
I don’t mind tropes. Sometimes, phrases that are often used are that way because they withstand the test of time. I don’t’ even have to finish the following sentences and you know the balance… “You can’t judge a book by…” “You can lead a horse to water but you can’t…” “Good things come to those…
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Tillykke med fødselsdagen, Lee!
Since I can’t wish kick ass educator, author, and fellow Titleholder Lee Harrington a Happy Birthday in person today, here is my audio card! Listen!
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“A Single Gal’s Manifesto” by Sheryn B.
A woman I greatly admire and who I recognized as being one of those soul-family people when we first met recently wrote a blog post on FetLife. It kind of is the zenith to my recent post’s nadir-gazing miasma, and I’ve obtained her permission to repost it here.
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The REAL Black Friday!
Yeah, forget about all that pushing shoving camping out and shit. You know where the REAL deals are to be had? Mr. S and Madam S, that’s where! Come and join me and the crew of Mr. S and Madame S for a reception and fundraiser TONIGHT! The party is from 7:00 PM ~ 10:00…
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The Negress Natters: Late-Night BS Edition.
Late night and I wanna do some yammering, so I asked who was up late night and wanted ta ask me something. Few people aren’t in overstuffed coma mode, but @weebeasty asked me some stuff…now, something went fucked in the recording and part of it wasn’t captured. But I’m disinclined to re-record it. Suffice to…
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A Lust of Shakespearean Dimensions.
“The Taming of the Shrew” is a problematic show. The main plotline revolving, as it does, around a woman being forced into an arranged marriage to an apparent loony who then proceeds to beat and starve her into submission. Literally. There is another plotline but that shit is boring and I don’t give a motherfuck…
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Less is More.
This one is the total fault of @sexisfuncoochie. That’s what you get for asking an innocent question. OK. Um, Mo here, talking about being (mostly) mono in a poly world. And by “poly world†I mean the BDSM community as I experience it. I’ve been around a while, and I am not a shrinking violet…
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Lolita Wolf is in the NYT!
Check out Lolita Wolf, one of my heroines (and a friend), in a lovely piece in the New York Times series “One in 8 Million”!! Lolita Wolf: The Kinky Lover REPRESENT, GIRL!!
Read MoreIn Memoriam: Mr. Marcus Hernandez
Please do come pay your respects, if you can, to Mr. Hernandez. I will be in service at Ms. SF Leather, and acting as one of the Honor Guard for this solemn and joyful celebration of this Leather Icon. Copyright © 2006 Bay Area Reporter, a division of Benro Enterprises, Inc. Memorial for ‘Mister Marcus’…
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Race-play roll-up and ruminations.
You might not have known me back when I first started talking publicly about my experiences as a Black woman, into BDSM, as a submissive /slave identified person, who did scenes that incorporated and underscored racial issues in play. If you did, you remember the flamewars, fights, humiliating rejection, condemnation and various hootenannies that fell…
Read MoreSunday Morning Sexytime Story: K.I.S.S.
Been a while so here we go with a simple little reminder to Keep It Simple, Stupid. Kissing is awesome. Awesome and underrated. I know I’m not alone in feeling that the intimacy of a kiss is a profound one. Back when I used to occasionally go in for casual hook-ups, it wasn’t unusual of…
Read MoreFrom the Coyote’s Mouth.
There is always room for something new, and even this old bitch can learn a new trick! SO today marks a cherry broken: a cross-post of another blogger’s writings. My Twitter friend, CoyoteToo, posted today some thoughts that I found imminently digestible, interesting, thoughtful and unusual. Unusual in that not too often does one see…
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I’m 59!
from http://www.betweenmysheets.com/ Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2009 It’s here. Finally. I promised it earlier, I know. Life got in the way (I’ll talk about it in my next post). That, and I had well over 150 unique nominations this year, counting all the comments and the nominations I received via email. Last year, I…
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