Perversions
From ‘In The Flesh NYC’ … “Kiss My Boots”
Yay! For those who weren’t jammed the FUCK into the Happy Ending Lounge for In The Flesh NYC on March 18th, your time has come! I performed one of my favorite stories there. You can read it here and you can watch it below. Here is the first part… …and here is the rest! Enjoy!…
Read MoreHNT: Catharsis.
A couple of weeks ago my full-time employment-centric lifestyle evaporated, much more quickly that I thought would be the case in my life. That same week I received word that my roomie, who is awesome, was moving out as she and her girlfriend had found a place. All this as I was returning from a…
Read More“Vanilla” Bigotry.
I love perverted sex. In fact, some of the perverted sex I love the most is considered too fucked up for public consumption by other kinky people. I love kinky people. The community, warts and all, is a home for me. Â And like any extended weird family, we have our disagreements. I know for a…
Read MoreShoutbacks & Shoutouts & Cupcakes.
I’m always a little “!!!?!?!?!?” when people mention, quote or talk about me in their writings. But it makes all the gut-wrenching puling moaning and late night Waaaaaaaaaambulance calls worth it, if someone else can share in it with me. My entree to sex was awesome: I was 15, he was 18, we fucked all…
Read MorePOC @ LLC! Tell your story ASAP!
I am deeply honored and delighted to have been invited to present and share at the Leather Leadership Conference XIV this April 9th-11th , in Detroit, Michigan! I am sure some of you will be in attendance, but I know that not everyone can do so. I’m asking for your input, you thoughts, and your…
Read MoreHow to Guarantee I Won’t Date You.
I received this solicitation on a BDSM dating site. And I quote…. Master[REDACTED] Age: 37 Gender: Man Location: New Hampshire, United States Message: Hi babe :) I like what you have to say in your profile sugar :) LOL I’m a Dom looking for a slave whore to do what ever I want her to…
Read MorePolytiquette
Wondering, poly-minded people, from your experience, how you handle this situation! Poly person #1 asks you to hook up / get down. You’re cool with it, and it just so happens you know / are friends with / are otherwise cool with their partner, PolyPerson #2. How do you approach this negotiation? DO you talk…
Read MoreIs that a threat…?
In a chat on Twitter, Mark S and I were bantering about things that tops sometimes use as threats in order to incite fear into the hearts (and genitals) of those (un)lucky enough to find themselves at their (lack of) mercy. I thought about my own reaction to threats, and why they don’t usually work…
Read MoreA “Right” to public sex?
I love the Folsom Street Fair. I love that there is a day in the year that hundreds of thousands of freaks and gawkers run around being freaky. I love that we are given this leeway, and I love that our local government supports the Leather Community the way that it does. I am not…
Read MoreOh yeah. Jersey!
I was moping a bit because I didn’t have a date or nuttin. for the New Year thing. But now I do. I few hundred dates, I guess. Will you be one of them? Shout out if you’re going! Click the banner to register if you wanna be!
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