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Under 500: The Hungarian.
The “Under 500” are posts in which I attempt to do a sketch of a moment, generally sexual, in under 500 words. I’m inspired to add this to the stash. I hope you enjoy… Panting unsettles my orgasmic dénouement. His hand was still on my neck. Big, strong fingers tracing deceptively delicate diagrams at the…
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HNT: Catharsis.
A couple of weeks ago my full-time employment-centric lifestyle evaporated, much more quickly that I thought would be the case in my life. That same week I received word that my roomie, who is awesome, was moving out as she and her girlfriend had found a place. All this as I was returning from a…
Read MoreApache. (the dance not the webserver you fucking geek)
As an artistical type person going on 36 years now, I am a perpetual student of all manner of art forms. Especially the ones my brain re-purposes for illicit erotic fantasymining. My skills as a dancer are often limited by the skill of my partner. Hm. Sound familiar? I can bottom quite well to a…
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e[lust] #9!
Welcome to e[lust] – your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #10? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s…
Read More‘Eclipse’ Party at The Citadel THIS FRIDAY!
ECLIPSE Women & TransFolk Play party! Friday, March 5 2010 8:00PM – 1:00AM Hosted by Ms. Cat & Ajax Friday, March 5th 8pm-1am at the SF Citadel Admission: $25 ECLIPSE IS BACK! If you haven’t been to an Eclipse party – what are you waiting for? Eclipse is a powerful gathering of Women and Trans…
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HNT ~ makeup and Vicodin.
Last night I was fortunate to spend the evening doing a shoot for the Folsom Street Fair Poster. I’m so grateful and straight up THRILLED to have been invited to participate! Sadly, 5 days of tooth pain, a really deep root-canal and 3 days of MORE pain made it hard to struggle through. Chin up, buttercup, carry…
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Looking onward to International Ms. Leather! Can you help?
I am running for International Ms. Leather, which is an amazing gathering happening from April 15th – 18th here in foggy San Francisco! In addition to the contest itself, which is a way for the Leather Community to come together, celebrate our pride in Leather and award the “International Ms. Leather” sash to a contestant,…
Read More[e]Lust #8
HNT Courtesy of Blue-Eyed Vixen Welcome to e[lust] – your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. ~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~ This Isn’t Play. . . BDSM…
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SM Odyssey Class tomorrow!
Strong Slaves, Bodacious Bottoms & Ass-Kicking Submissives: Embracing Dichotomy with Mollena Williams Where: smOdyssey Class room is at 1725 De la Cruz, Suite #5,Santa Clara, CA View Larger Map When: Tuesday February 23, 2010 Time: 7:00pm – 9:00pm Cost: $10.00 members of smOdyssey, Inc- $15.00 non-members Strong Slaves, Bodacious Bottoms & Ass-Kicking Submissives: Embracing Dichotomy…
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Happy Birthday Lolita!
I am fortunate. I am lucky to have “Grown up” in one of the more vibrant and open cities when it comes to alternative lifestyles. As a magnet for all manner of freaks, San Francisco is one of the crossroads: all of the “Big Name Fancy Perverts” come on through. My favourite part of getting…
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HNT: Yeti & Titties.
Been a long time, been a long time, been a long lonely lonely lonely lonely lone-leh time… Someone who has no business telling me what to do insisted that he was tired of seeing me hiding my tits behind my arm or a convenient stuffed heffalumnp, and he wanted to “…see all that shit, goddammmit.”…
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Not Yo’ Mama’s Tea Party! THIS SUNDAY!
We have Art from Lochai…Bellydancing from Mistress Selina Raven…Rope Bondage and a Tea Ceremony by Madame Butterfly…penitential spankings from Sister of Perpetual Indulgence Sister Mable Syrup and Rubber Chicken Spankings from Froghole The Clown…Tea Demonstrations and rope bondage demos… beautiful harp music provided LIVE by Ms. Beth Powell…and SO much more cool shit! Silent Auction…
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“Vanilla” Bigotry.
I love perverted sex. In fact, some of the perverted sex I love the most is considered too fucked up for public consumption by other kinky people. I love kinky people. The community, warts and all, is a home for me. Â And like any extended weird family, we have our disagreements. I know for a…
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Coming Soon, from Greenery Press…
As it happened, Greenery Press’ Editrix In Chief felt that “race play” was too narrow-focused a topic for the parameters of a “Toybag Guide.” series. That book’ll have to wait! SO, there was a compromise…
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The Pervert Says: “Thank You.”
Sometimes you gotta get a little pop in the face that reminds you of what is important, and how much you take for granted. I recently took a moment to dig up some folks I’d not heard from in a while. Social Media is a great way to soft-connect with long lost buddies. I am…
Read MoreAdvice for those new to Kink: From “How My Other Half Lives”
I am not a wheel re-inventer. SO, when someone else has taken the time and energy to thoughtfully and thoroughly answer a question I’m often asked, I’ll pass the motherfucking buck! My buddy@SaschaK posted a great blog entry on her home on the range, How my other half lives that I think everyone should read.…
Read MoreCongratulations, Lance!
Yeah baby! Mr. Powerhouse 2010 and looking as good as he wanna be!
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“Play” vs. Play.
I have a demo coming up this weekend for the Madtown Kinkfest. I really love the folks there, and I’m looking forward to it. I have a somewhat unique situation in that, because of popular demand, (believe me, it sounds even weirder to me than it does to you) I’m tracked on my own session…
Read MoreShoutbacks & Shoutouts & Cupcakes.
I’m always a little “!!!?!?!?!?” when people mention, quote or talk about me in their writings. But it makes all the gut-wrenching puling moaning and late night Waaaaaaaaaambulance calls worth it, if someone else can share in it with me. My entree to sex was awesome: I was 15, he was 18, we fucked all…
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Half Full.
I need approval. Someone patting me on the head and giving me that “Good Girl.†Can melt away the thickest glacier of self-loathing and dissolve the greasiest oil-slick of self-imposed reflexive hatred. I clearly recall, with fondness, having resentment, anger, self-pity, even rage, wiped away by my dominant telling me how good job I was…
Read More“Not Yo’ Mama’s Tea Party” is coming…SAVE THE DATE!
An outrageous tea party is hitting the ground on SUNDAY February 21st! Tea! Tea demos! Bondage! Bondage Demos! Silent auction! Loud-Ass auction! Celebrity Guests! RUBBER CHICKEN SPANKINGS! Divas and Deviants all mixing it up to help raise funds for LYRIC, The Transgender Law Center Crowded Fire Theater Company and the Ms. SF Leather Travel Fund!…
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