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Excerpted from “The Admiral’s Slave.”
From Chapter 2 “Molly.†“Yes, Master.†“You have not been thorough in your duties. Are you quite certain you are done?†“Is there something further you require, Master?†“Yes.†The fire’s brazen shadows played over his face, glittering within his half-closed eyes. He grasped my forearm with his damp hand and pulled me so that…
Read Moree[lust] SexBlog roll-up #52
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Veteran’s Day, and a thought for my Father.
I don’t often pay much attention to Veteran’s Day except to ponder the horribleness of war. But this morning I realized the most influentiam man of my childhood served in the armed forces..and I don’t even know where he is today. My Father is (was?) a Navy Vet, having served  in Vietnam and surviving the…
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Leather Reign 2013: on silence & service.
I was invited to one of my favourite Leather events last year, and was happy to say yes. I respect the way the folks at Leather Reign do business, and I salute the honor they did me in inviting me to speak to their guests. Â When they invited me to speak at their dinner, I…
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Seven (Random) Suggestions for Submissive/Slave Types!
There is no one rulebook for how to do this thing we call BDSM, Power-Exchange, Master/Slave relationships, etc., etc. One of the things I most enjoy about perverts is our limitless capacity to forge our own damn path, thank you very much! I’ve done a lot of weed-whacking through the jungles of kink in order…
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my voice.
I was listening, the other day, to Dorothy Allison talk about truth, fiction, and making your own genres. I realized just now that the core reason I have been stuck with so much of the stuff I have to say is that I need Bigger Ideas and Stranger Canvasses than one normally sees in order…
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Ending-in-O in Chicago & Toronto, yo!
I’ll be hitting Chicago & Toronto, and debuting a new class to boot! So what’s that all aboot? Glad ya asked! I have a FREE class in Chicago, Three classes at Come As You Are in Toronto and I’m s-q-u-e-e-z-i-n-g in two additional class sessions, one of which is a world premier! Get in on…
Read MoreOi! I made top three in e-[lust] #51
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Seven (Random) Suggestions for Dominant Types!
There is no one rulebook for how to do this thing we call BDSM, Power-Exchange, Master/Slave relationships, etc., etc. One of the things I most enjoy about perverts is our limitless capacity to forge our own damn path, thank you very much! I’ve done a lot of weed-whacking through the jungles of kink in order…
Read MoreIn the top 3 for e-Lust’s 50th!
Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #51? Start with the newly updated rules, come back October…
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The least you can do.
I recently started getting to know a man, having recently met online. Anyone who has done this square-dance knows how tough it is to establish sufficient mutual interest on a dating site and then establish, rather quickly, a pattern of contact and interaction comfortable and reasonably sustainable for all involved parties. Add to that distance…
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e-Lust #49 is out & I made the “Top 3 Posts!”
Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #50? Start with the newly updated rules, come back September…
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#SubmissionInSixty
Fingers digging into the flesh of my belly. Distracted from fulminating blows from his girthy cock, my humiliation whispered “…fatass bitch. He’s using your gut to pull you onto his dick…†Embarrassed, I pushed his hands. “Stop…” Shoving my face into the bed, fingers dug deeper into my belly. “Shut up. I like it.†I…
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Dominant Savant…?
The idea of a savant – someone who exhibits a particular exemplary skill while somehow presenting with a seeming deficit in other areas – is fascinating to me. I’ve an affinity for those who are outliers, removed from the standard, separate from the mainstream. And that attraction slipped naturally into place when I came out…
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#SubmissionInSixty
 I am trying a new thing to cudgel my brains into writing something…even if it is short. To remind myself it doesn’t have to be a big-ass project in order to be worthy. Its just a blog, right? So I decided I’d write #SubmissionInSixty – a d/s moment captured in 60 words. Exactly 60.…
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‘Breath.’
I wrote a story a couple of years ago. More of a “scene report” actually, if I am being specific. It appears in the anthology ‘serving him: sexy stories of submission‘ and I was motivated to read it aloud after participating in an online author reading today! I hope you enjoy it.
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When I get annoyed, shit happens.
Once again, I’m irritated into action. I see a lotta lotta poly types leveling-up their stamina by taking swings at monogamy, and monoamorous people. Not a fan. Mind you, there are plenty of polyfolks who do NOT engage in this bullshit. My excellent friend Cunning Minx, a big time advocate of poly, is so awesome as to…
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Pervert.
I wear this necklace in daily life, and sometimes it sparks conversation. I am quite adept at opening up conversation without creating any pressure. People who ask are curious, and I find it a lovely way to conduct outreach, even as I’m buying my favourite cupcakes, waiting for a flight overseas, or riding the 7…
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Toast.
The reality of being single is gonna be different for everyone but for me, it sucks. Hard. I keep a pretty hectic schedule in part because it gives me somewhere to pour the energy I would much rather have under the hand of an owner. Until such time as that happens, we will just keep…
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Got Rope? (NSFW)
People are often curious as to why a particular play-style, pervy activity or kind of kink appeals while others leave you cold. I can’t speak for anyone but myself, but I’ll tell you about why I so love bottoming to rope bondage, and submission via rope.  There are forty-two reasons, on any given day, why…
Read Moree-Lust #48
Photo courtesy of It Girl Rag Doll Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #49? Start with…
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Less is More.
Mo here, talking about being (mostly) mono in a poly world. And by “poly world†I mean the BDSM community as I experience it. I’ve been around a while, and I am not a shrinking violet when it comes to hopping around the country chilling with my Leather and Kinky and Sex Positive and Freaky Peeps. And…
Read MoreTell Me You Want Me.
As someone who is submissive, not only in terms of power-exchange relationships but also quite sexually submissive, I field a lot of questions about what that means. “So, do you just, like, lie there?†“You don’t care what happens to you in bed?†“Will you just do whatever they tell you?†“I assume you have…
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