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Loving the flaws.
I strive to swerve online drama. I have been doing the “online thing” for a while now. Not as long as some, but longer than others. I still become honestly puzzled by people who assume that a common sexual bent will somehow filter out jerks, losers, douchebags, whiners, predators, evil beings, and just plain old…
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HNT ~ now you see me…
Playing dress-up is something I’ve enjoyed since I was a kid. And, as an actor, I’ve been able to indulge that frolicsome aspect of myself in many ways. I especially enjoy masks. When studying theater, I learned a great deal about the power of a mask, the history and mysticism of how free one can…
Read MoreFireplay: u r doin it wrong.
Fireplay can be a dramatic and sexy aspect of BDSM play. Whether you are doing a quick swipe of someone’s skin with flash-paper or using some high falutin’ fire floggers, it is certainly an eye-catching and showy scene. Unless you set everything on fire. I was recently reminded of a scene I saw many years…
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Fundies in the dungeon.
I have observed, over the years, a passive-aggressive tendency among perverts to denigrate one another’s choices within the Leather Lifestyle. For me the MOST insidious behaviour is the posturing of some people who self-identify as slaves. They are the ones most often referring to themselves with the dubious title “True†slaves, and farting in the…
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Let me Entertain You…
I have lots of stories to tell. So many that sometimes it is tough to figure out where to start. Do me a favor…? Help me remember. Toss a penny in my mental wishing well. In the same way that last week’s Sunday Morning Sexytime Story was pulled from the depth of my consciousness by…
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Rufflebutt!
 I adore The AdipositivityProject. And SubstantiaJones. And this photo. The first photo posted in this series on her amazing site can be found here…I posted it a little while back but check it out again :-) The rain that started in that other photo continued in this one. It was warm and raining and…
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Make me want it.
“I am never impressed by sheer brutality in BDSM. I AM impressed when someone can evoke a DESIRE for sheer brutality in BDSM.” ~Mollena This occurred to me as I was reading page upon page of profiles on a couple of kink oriented sites where dominants were talking about how hardcore they were. Strict dominant…
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Haiku Nekkid Thursday.
Lying the wrong way in bed while the morning sun Limns drifting dust motes. Â Â Oddly transgressive reversed orientation complicates waking. Â Â
Read MoreSugasm #172
HNT courtesy of Sweat Shop Sissy. The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #173? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. This Week’s Picks A Hot Fuck in a Parking Lot…
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A cool cool contest Courtesey of Bad Bad Girl.
There is a contest for stuff from Extreme Restraints. As far as I can figure, I gotta put up a post about it (and so, here it is!) Contest for Extreme Restraints! HERE is MO’s Wishlist. BBG’s Big Bad Contest- The Grand Fucking Prize!
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**horn tooting**
From the “Best Sex Writing 2010” Blog, written by Rachel Kramer Bussel Best Sex Writing 2010 to be Published in December 2009 I’m VERY excited about Best Sex Writing 2010 and working with guest judge Esther Perel. We just finalized the Table of Contents and WOW is this book going to be amazing! Foreword by: Esther…
Read MoreSunday Morning Sexytime Story: Bootycall Buzzkill
Some things are mixed blessings. I orgasm pretty very easily, and come pretty goddamn hard, and from all manner of stimuli. Whether it is from making out, being spanked, the tightening of a rope coupled with That Look, or a slap to the face or an extended club remix session of attentive nipple stimulation or…
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HNT: Windows & Mirrors.
That whole “The eyes are the window of the soul” thing is often true. I know I tend to thoughtless transparence in terms of eye contact. However, a lifetime of being the pleaser, the performer, of being trained to display emotions at will makes me feel a bit outside of this trope. Sure, it is…
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The underside.
I’m lonely and it is making me sad. I feel as though the further along a travel in my journey in this life, I am becoming very fluid in some areas and very, very uncompromising in others. I receive unilateral support in this. “Don’t compromise! Be You! You are worthy! Good for you for sticking…
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Monday night MADNESS.
As I sort frantically through a metric fuckton of email on FetLife, follow up on some proposals for BDSM classes, update this here blog with new class listings, I was craving a snack. I know. The superglam life of the Executive Pervert is a dizzying dance of desire… Anyway, so yeah. Popcorn was the clarion…
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Half Nekkid Thursday: Lights! Camera! Speed! Action!
HNT Thursday August 27th 2009 from Mollena Williams on Vimeo. Â Attention REDDIT lovers! I made a category for HNTs on Reddit.com so go put your HNT on up there!
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“Best Sex Writing 2010!”
I got word from the Mighty Mighty Bussel…Rachel Kramer Bussel, that is, that I am one step closer to World Domination and my goal of becoming the Oprah Winfrey of BDSM & Kink. I am going to be a part of the “Best Sex Writing 2010” anthology! I was nudged by Rachel a few months…
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Floating World, Flukey Weather.
On the way to Floating World I ran into a couple of moments of Zen. The first was cool: I ran into the charming and dope ass Q in the terminal. Q was on the way to the Butch Voices Conference, even as I was headed back east for Floating World. We chatted a bit in the…
Read MoreSugasm #171
Sugasm #171 The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #172? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. This Week’s Picks Kiss Me If You Can “I love the buildup, the discovery. 
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Catch me at Floating World!
I’m off late-night tonight on the red-eye to New Jersey. Gods help me…it pains my Harlem slash Upper East Side NY grrl heart to even type that… But it is for a good cause, since it’s gonna be just me and 1,199 other perverts for a weekend of depravity. Â
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Half Nekkid Thursday: Fat Latex.
I’ve never worn this skirt. Sure, it is innocuous. Not even that clingy for a latex garment. But as a fat girl I don’t see latex modeled much for women my size. SO, I can never imagine myself in it, clingy and revealing or no. But I’m fucking tired of being self-conscious so I dragged…
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