In 14,430.9 days, I have yet to…

23 December 2008 |

Have a ménage à trois that involved multiple men. I don’t think, if memory serves (which it often doesn’t because my memory usually is behind a dumpster somewhere skulking and smoking clove cigarettes and refusing to fetch and carry anything so far as ONE synaptic gap, thankyouverymuch) that I have even had a co-topping scene…

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You are not the boss of me!

19 December 2008 |

One of the myths I dispelled immediately among my friends was that being a masochist means that ALL pain is delectable. And that being submissive meant that I’d be doing their dishes. I still hate gong to the dentist, and apart from the supercalifragilisticexpialimasochist dude in Little Shop of Horrors, I know few people who…

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WYD?: Vader vs. Joker

18 December 2008 | Comments Off on WYD?: Vader vs. Joker

[poll id=”3″] ____________________________________________________________________ the void: Eddie Murphy is in the next Batman movie Mollena: ?!??!?!?! Mollena: as who? Mollena: The Loser?!?! the void: The Riddler Mollena: but they already HAD a Riddler flick the void: they already had a Joker too the void: Mollena: and I said that same thing when I heard about…

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HNT: Thick, Brown & Kinked-Out.

18 December 2008 |
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WTF Wednesday: Whip and tell.

17 December 2008 |

An online friend recently wrote about their decision to kibosh writing scene reports.  They questioned their motives. Was it “show-offery”? Who was the report for, anyway, if not for the people involved to “strut their stuff”? And why yammer to the world about yo private biz-nass?  What happens in the Dungeon stays in the Dungeon,…

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PonyPlay: UR Doin’ it Wrong…

16 December 2008 |
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Pleasurists #8 – Toy Review Round-Up!

15 December 2008 |

Editor’s Pick LELO Mia by Beautiful Dreamer Note: there is a written component to the review as well. Read it here. Madame Editrix Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek Vibrators Diamond Butterfly by Backseat Boohoo Mia by Ansley Agnello LELO Gigi by Hedonistic Bitch If Jane Jetson Had a Vibrator – bSoft by Ansley Agnello Driving Home –…

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Put up or shut up.

12 December 2008 |

When people are first coming out into the BDSM community and feeling wallflowerish, new, awkward and like a kid on the outskirts of the cafeteria looking for a way to be closer to the “Cool” table, I often recommend that they volunteer for events. Munches are a great way to meet people, sure. BDSM and…

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Sugasm 154, y’all!

12 December 2008 | Comments Off on Sugasm 154, y’all!

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #155? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing radicalvixenatgmaildotcom This Week’s Picks Watching “My heart raced as I watched him stare at me, wondering if…

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HNT: Post Yoga Glow.

11 December 2008 |

I am a huffing puffing puffin-belly on the Yoga floor But the studio where I have only just started this practice of being present is an amazing environment in which to work. And the instructor with whom I have gone through two incredible 90 minute journeys is nothing short of spec-fucking-tacular. I had a whole…

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I wanna be full of WIN.

10 December 2008 | Comments Off on I wanna be full of WIN.

VOTE FOR ME!! No, this is not a cpontest that involves it being my birthday. Not THAT kind of Shorty! Yep, leave it to me to pervert an online popularity contest. If you are a TWITTER ADDICT, or Tweetling N00b,  please vote for me for top Kinky Twitterererer! And hell, vote for me for…

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WTF Wednesday: Come. On my “face”.

10 December 2008 |

“Do you know what a ‘Tribute photo’ is?” A lazy afternoon in bed with my laptop. I am on IM with an online friend and under normal circumstances, I might take a moment to research the thing myself before responding “No.” I have a thing about gathering knowledge myself. A cursory search turns up very…

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08 December 2008 |

John Lennon October 9th, 1940 – December 8th, 1980

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“So why are you still single?”

08 December 2008 | Comments Off on “So why are you still single?”

(The name and the grammar have been (partially) changed / corrected to (kinda) protect the innocent) Mollena: Hi there…I suppose it has been an entire day since you sent that IM to me….and my gods were you up early in a Sunday! gimmiesomebooty: lol yea gimmiesomebooty: so how are you chocolate perfection? Mollena: You are…

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The Pleasurists #7

08 December 2008 |

Seven by Jean Paul Four Pleasurists is your round-up of the adult product reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #6? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #8? Submit it here before Sunday December 14th at 11:59pm…

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Making a Dark Odyssey…alone.

06 December 2008 |

I will be leaving beautiful San Francisco to visit our nation’s capital twice within a one-month period. W000t! This first is to take part in the stunning moment of history that is the Coronation Inauguration of Barack Hussein Obama. Holyshit. I still have a slow burn of effulgent shock when I think on what we…

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Shallow Mo…

01 December 2008 |

I don’t usually advertise myself as a switch. Why? Because I’m not, centrally, switch-focused. I have found a depth of fulfillment within my submissive nature that is pretty fucking startlingly WINtastic. But every once in a while someone gets through the cracks and I think “Well, maybe, maybe I could switch…” And I wish it…

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Sugasm #153: hot off the presses…

28 November 2008 | Comments Off on Sugasm #153: hot off the presses…

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #154? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing ’em directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom! This Week’s Picks For tonight, we’ll forget who and what we are. “I…

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HNT: USDA Prime Grade Rump. Very rare.

27 November 2008 |
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OMGLULZROFFLECOPTER!!! The funniest fucking BDSM Thanksgiving video EVAR!!!

27 November 2008 |

I fucking WEEP every time I watch this….MAD PROPS to Viviane for pimping this link!!

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WTF Wednesday: tiny collar.

26 November 2008 |

One of the more romantic ideals within the BDSM world is that of collaring. But it is not a universal conceit: the symbolism varies wildly. There are some folks for whom a collar is a nice accessory, an ornament, worn because it looks sexy. And it runs the gamut all the way to those for whom…

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Pretty Mess.

25 November 2008 |

I am aware that there are people who enjoy “messy” sex as their kink. I was, not too long ago, at dinner with friends. When one poured a mini-pitcher of au jus down the shirt of  the other (to my shocked dismay, let me add) the saucee was less dismayed by the impromptu gravy anointing as they were…

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FemDoms: my sympathies.

24 November 2008 |

In my experience, Lifestyle female Dominants are among the rarer critters in the plains and valleys of the BDSM / Leather Lifestyle Landscape. These women are often beset by hordes of male submissives. It sounds like an awesome proposition no? To have packs of men swooning at your feet. Who wouldn’t want to be the…

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A (belated) “Thank You” to the good folks at APEX.

22 November 2008 | Comments Off on A (belated) “Thank You” to the good folks at APEX.

Yeah, I sometimes forget to say “Hey, that fucking ruled!” when something fucking rules. So I belatedly wish to give a shout out to those awesome ass-kicking Kinksters living amidst the south-west sandstorms, sunsets, snakes and succulents. Firstly to Red for her invitation and ease of negotiation. Red, ya kick ass. Keep on keeping on.…

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Half-Nekkid Thursday: Boob & Bondage ring.

20 November 2008 |
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