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Mo’s Internet Dating Tips: Watch your feet.
Hey kids! I know not everyone here is on an internet dating site. But most of you have tried one if you’ve been single in the past decade of so. And on the more adult sites, there are often issues that one faces. I addressed the issue of crappy handles and titles in the last…
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Sunday Morning Sexytime Story: Special Edition!
This is a video of my inaugural performance at the Bawdy Storytelling in San Francisco. Curated by Dixie DeLaTour, the “Bawdy Storytelling“ is an awesome chance for people to share their lascivious lives and adult adventures! This is my first time sharing about some personal and controversial stuff in this context. Since it wasn’t a class,…
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HNT: Dressed and still Nekkid.
I performed tonight at an AMAZING event called “Bawdy Storytelling” and you can see the information about it in my post from a couple of days ago. Dixie DeLaTour hosts and curates it and I know how much work that can be. And I major fucking HUGE round of applause because she is flawless. She…
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WTF Wednesday! Scene Music: WTF do you Fuck to?
Quickie post here as I’m behind on a ^&%^%$## deadline! I’ve had several folks on Twitter today asking about scene music. So take a sec and throw down in the comments with your fave BDSM / Kink / Sex tunes. Blip links if you have the time, and DJ lists and links if you have…
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“Bawdy?” Check. “Storytelling?” Ditto.
The pretty-dang-awesome Dixie DeLaTour nudged me on Twitter today to see if I might be able to talk to some people about sex tomorrow night. And hey, it turns out I’m free :-) I’ll be talking about one of my long-time fantasies brought to real-time…kind of, at least! I talked a bit about it in…
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Adult Baby Fetish: UR doin’ it…wrong?
There are plenty of fetishes that evince puzzled looks or giggles from people, and I know that some of mine fall into that category. While the average person can grasp the general concept of “Power Exchange” a more finely-tuned fetish such as racially-motivated play or reverse-anthropomorphic play can be more difficult for folks to grasp.…
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Sunday Morning Sexytime Story: First Time.
Today’s Sunday Morning Sexytime Story is one some of y’all may have heard before and speaks to the power of a vivid imagination and suggestion. And my extremely trusting inner paranoid!
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Help FAQ up my site!
“Why do you do all that…kinky stuff…?” I get this a LOT. Not just from non-kink-identified people, but also from hardcore perverts. As one of the few people out about edgier kinks, I sure as hell have been in the middle of heated debates about the nuances of controversial role-play. But the same question is…
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SBF Seeks Hot, Sadistic DDS…
As I have said before and it bears repeating there is a statistically insignificant number of perverts who eroticise dental pain. Aside from Bill Murrays’ character in Little Shop of Horrors, you just aren’t’ gonna find many people who dig on that shit! I’ve been going through a series of panicky moments due to an…
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Happy (Healthy Hooters) Half-Nekkid Thursday!
When I first started to grow boobs I was dismayed. My areola, being HUGE from the get-go lead me to believe I was doomed to have tits that were ALL. AREOLA. I mostly have grown into them but I still think it looks kind of odd. Whatever. As my 40th birthday snuck up to smash…
Read MoreA Mogasm in Sugasm #170!
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. This Week’s Picks  The fundamental things apply… “If you can’t fuck me with your mouth, how are you going to handle fucking all of me at once?†Ooo Ooo, its me! Thank…
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RACK
RACK’s tenets are best described by a deconstruction of the acronym. Risk-Aware: Both or all partners are well-informed of the risks involved in the proposed activity. Consensual: In light of those risks, both or all partners have, of sound mind, offered preliminary consent to engage in said activity. Kink: Said activity can be classified as…
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Shy Freaks.
Who we are is never, ever a one-dimensional painting. It is a sculpture, kinetic, a maze, a faceted crystal, a subterranean cavern, an oceanic abyss, a windswept plateau, all of these things. Having a dawning realization that you might resonate with something about BDSM, whether it not it is something as simple as fascination with…
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I’m Faaaaaamous!!
OMG CHECK OUT Sharon Glassman’s column in The Huffington Post, everybody! What is Work? Kinky Sex and a 401K Tweet it! Digg it! Pass it around, blow it up! I am so effing proud…thank you Sharon!
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Community. Service.
This weekend I was able to connect with my BDSM Community peeps on both Saturday and Sunday. And The Lord (Ganesha, of course) said it was good. The Iron Dom contest was a delight! The crowd was enthusiastic the participants amazingly creative and the willing victims game, and sassy, and I feel confident in saying…
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Perversion has a New Look!
Welcome back! Poke around the Site! Gaze in awestruck slack-jawed amazement at my Twitter Rollup! Scroll to the bottom for featured pages! Buy something from my Store where I pick cool shit! Yay! Thanks to Keith for the codewrangling. Fuck…of course NOW my hyperlinks aren’t showing up as gray any more…ah, newness!
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SF’s “IRON DOM” contest is tomorrow!
The “Iron Dom” contest has been going on for a while now, and I’ve participated in it, as either a willing “victim” or a Judge. This time I’ll be the MC…whatever the fuck that means. I assume it means I get to talk trash, and for this I am always prepared to step up to…
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HNT ~ Dana Lends a Hand. Or Two.
Somewhere between a multi-limbed Hindu deity and that Janet Jackson cover is me, recently having been beaten to the ground and my insanely gorgeous friend Dana, who you can’t see. But you get the point. The preceding scene left a few bruises and marks, but not as many as the *&^%$#@& mosquitoes in Wisconsin. Damn.…
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Look Mom! Fetish Models! Can I keep ’em?!
Though I am often a procrastinator, I did mean to buy a day in the NYC Sex Bloggers Calendar. I was delighted to see that my birthday was available, so that calendar purchasers will have that handy reminder in 2010. But hey. I was feeling altruistic so I bought the One-Day-A-Month option. I filled out…
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Running away to home.
Dark moods are not unknown to me. Though I have many fewer now than I did even a year ago, and by orders of magnitude fewer today than I did when I a still actively drinking myself to death. the (up?down?)side to this is that today, I am committed to turning my heart to face these moods…
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The wildness.
I got The Wildness yesterday. Voice in the head clear as day, no fucking fooling around, said to me what you need to do is get out of town for a few days. GO. Uh…kinda difficult with work with all of the writing, reading, reviewing and shit I have to do I can’t just run away from life it…
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HNT…boys don’t make passes…
…at girls who wear glasses. Which is too bad, really. Because being myopic has very, very few evolutionary advantages. But one of them is this: I am essentially blindfolded once my glasses are off.
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Working. Hard.
Occasionally I am tasked with sorting through the porn we receive to see if there is anything I might find appropriate for one of the sites I work on. And usually the answer is, “Nope.” Kinky people are fussy about their pron, and usually I am bored as fuck when I see yet another bunch…
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Submit. Fiercely.
“Sekhmet” ~ by Laurel Green  As often happens my brain revs up to impossible speeds just as I’m going to sleep. I am certain that this is because “normal working hours†are at odds with the hours in which I work best. I am NOT. Bloody. Diurnal. If the average person has an 8-hour window…
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A little strut, and a little attention whoring.
On Friday my post Made the FLESHBOT SEX BLOG ROUNDUP! Mad props to Madeline Glass for the Fleshbotty loving. And if you wanna spread some loving my way, and can take a second to surf on over to Between My Sheets and nom-nom-nominate me for a SexyBlogger nod, I’ll be thankful and shit. Or something.
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