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IMPACT.
IMPACT. a short film. World Premier: Yerba Buena Center for the Arts ASKEW Film Festival. Conceived, Directed by and starring Mollena Williams Aeric Meredith-Goujon ~ Assistant Director, Camera, Editing Featuring: Laura Antoniou Nayland Blake Lee Harrington Sinclair Sexsmith  Lolita Wolf Special Thanks to Madison Young, the Yerba Buena Center for the Arts,  Laura Antoniou and Karen Taylor
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Photo courtesy of @iSlut_ of A Slut’s Memoir Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #41? Start…
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I’ve got sunshine on a cloudy day.
Sometimes I stop and take stock and crack myself up. I’m living my life from the inside so I don’t often think about the reality of how amazing it is, really. So this morning when I said to my roomate / Evil Landlady (who happens to be internationally known author and speaker Laura Antoniou) and…
Read MoreThe 2012 “PLAYING WELL WITH OTHERS” Whistle Stop Tour!
http://www.gofundme.com/playingwellwithothers  After a few years in the making, “Playing Well With Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities†is out!  To celebrate, we have planned an ambitious book tour: 16 cities in 21 days! We will be traversing the USA (and Vancouver) by train (and a few legs…
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Goodbye, Wedge.
I found out last week that my one remaining cat, Wedge, was sick. But I guess i can’t call him mine because I’d tried to find him a home before i left California so that his life would be more stable. As I found out last week, his life wasn’t all that stable after all. He had…
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I know I’m not the only pervert…
…who would find this super hot. ‎I, for one, would be SO TURNED ON if someone said that to me after shagging my brain into next week that they’d have to eat their Wheaties and prepare for round two.
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My Demon is on NPR.
As a storyteller, there are several landmarks ya hit when telling that resonate. The first time with a big audience. That first time revealing something you’ve never told. The first time you perform at a national event. I’d hit all but two of my storytelling goals (at that time) when I received an e-mail from one of…
Read MoreFINAL FETFEST FINALITY!!
You have until MIDNIGHT TONIGHT…August 24th…to get in under the registration deadline!  Then you’re Shit Outta Luck! And if you buy it and you use code “MOLLENA” you get an extra 10% off, you get to go to an awesome event, and maybe…just maybe…. you’ll see me running around dressed like a pony. So what the fuck…
Read MoreHow You Know You Are On The Rag.
1) Experience Violent chocolate pudding craving. 2) Go on midnight pudding run in strange town. 3) Discover there is no pre-made pudding. 4) Buy milk, pudding mix & Lactaid pills so you can eat whole milk. 4A)…because FUCK SOY MILK I AM TIRED OF NOT HAVING THE REAL STUFF YOU BASTARD COLON!!
Read MoreBoba FettLife!
One of the awesome “Rules if the Internet” is Rule 34: If it exists, there is porn of it. A friend on Facebook, upon seeing me mention Fetlife, mentioned that he thought I was, of course, referring to Boba Fett. I could not resist seeing if the legendary bounty hunter was the source of any…
Read Moree[Lust] #39 … (Yay! I’m in the top three!)
Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #40? Start with the newly updated rules, come back September…
Read MoreThis is today. Tomorrow will, I’m sure, be different.
There isn’t much grace or dignity in pouring out one’s guts all over the damn internet. I’m protective of my rough spots, mostly because I loathe the idea of The Haters smirking smugly at my difficulty. And also because it is pretty easy to look at someone’s life from the outside and assume they’re doing…
Read MoreBig Ups to TT and missed Qs!
I just spent an amaaaazing hour speaking with the lovely and talented Tristan Taormino! What a rush…sometimes, life becomes awesome and you get to talk with people who have motivated and inspired you in your own journey towards self-actualization. I’m tickled plum that I can be where I am today and talk with Tristan! Listen to the…
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CROSSPOST: CaptainAwkward gets real on sexual abuse.
This is a cross-post from a truly amazing blog. And it is vitally important for everyone to read it. It is especially important for those of us in the BDSM / Leather / Kink / AltSex communities to listen. Closely.  CaptainAwkward.com Advice. Staircase Wit. Faux Pas. Movies. #322 & #323 “My friend group has a…
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Pardon the wonk!
Thing’s will be a bit wonky for a little while as my site is being awesomeified! Here’s my travel & appearances calendar, in case you need to know when I’ll be in your town!  Please take a look at the book hitting your eyeballs in September: Playing Well with Others, the amazing book Lee Harrington and I wroted!…
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Would you crawl for Khan?
Don’t you even try to tell me Gene L. Coon wasn’t a freaking pervert. To this day this makes me so hot.
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I’m-a be all up in Tristan Taormino’s “Sex Out Loud!”
Woot! I am super stoked to be on the amazing Tristan Taormino’s new show, Sex Out Loud! Tune on this Friday evening! Time zones listed below! From Tristan Taormino’s Site Mollena Williams – our guest for our Friday August 1oth episode of Sex Out Loud – is simply one of the most intelligent and articulate BDSM educators…
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WARNING: Fat girl tied up!
Yeah there’s lots of yelling back and forth about body image. I get tired of yelling at the people going on about “Real women” this and that when they mean “women who don’t look like photoshopped models” or “anyone but a woman we have arbitrarily labeled a skinny bitch.” In the kink community, slender Caucasian women are still the gold standard…
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FetFest, yo!
You have until MIDNIGHT TONIGHT…August 31st…to get the last of the regular registration tickets!  Then the price jumps! And if you buy it today, and you use code “MOLLENA” you get an extra 10% off, you get to go to an awesome event, and maybe…just maybe…. you’ll see me running around dressed like a pony. So what…
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Collars & closure & owning myself.
Winner of the National Leather Association International 2012 Cynthia Slater Non-Fiction Award ________________________________________________________ It took six months to meet up with The Dominant Guy and do the stuff that really needed to happen in order for me to close out that account. Yep, I know that “closure†is something that is elusive, somewhat mythic, and…
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Reality. Bites.
I had an inglorious day yesterday…a harried time at the airport, a plane change for what I really wished was a non-stop, and when I was finally able to rest I woke up covered in bites and an itchy mess thanks to some very small vampiric bedmates. SO, today I’m popping Benadryl non-stop to offset…
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Kink & Art & Video! Wanna help?
I received an email from the delightful Madison Young – Â multi-talented, hot, and the only person who I’ve recognized based just on a photo of their delightfully presented pussy. But I digress. Anyhoo, she messaged me with a proposal to do an art piece on the invisibility of the sexuality of women of color and…
Read MorePssst Are you a reviewer? Want a free book?
I have two essays in this wonderful book! I’m cross-posting a pretty cool offer from the Editor, Ms, Taormino. Continue reading to find out how you can get a free copy of the book in exchange for a book review! Seeking Kinky Book Reviewers: by Tristan Taormino I am really, really proud of my latest…
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Five Days of Gatewood, Day Five: Watch those teeth. (NSFW)
One of the first things I learned about putting people’s junk in your face was: watch the teeth. And that’s pretty much true for most people. Some people, however, love the teeth. in this case, due to my extra perky canines and concerns about violating the integrity of the prophylactic, I avoided any vigorous biteyness. But I…
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Five Days of Gatewood, Day Four: going down. (NSFW)
YeahOKSo…there it is. I haven’t much experience with doing sex only because you’re gonna be photographing it, so I might have been nervous except I wasn’t all that nervous. I was glad I thought to bring condoms, but unfortunately, these were lubricated. Upside? the lube wasn’t of a particularly janky flavor. I did wonder if I’d look…
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